04/08/2023 - 'Renewing our vows' by Alice

David and I are really looking forward to renewing our wedding vows in November. We've only been married 6 years but it's important to us to reaffirm these vows and enjoy a big celebration party while David still has his voice and his best dance floor moves 🕺🩵💙

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